The “Shrink Wrap”
System
Hey Y’all. In honor
of my upcoming second session with the Denver Therapists’ Network, we’re going
to hyperfocus (Ah, the Gifts of Un-medicated ADD!) on an extremely vital and
potentially tricky process: the
therapist of today choosing (and articulating) a highly specialized brand that
speaks powerfully in the marketplace.
We’re going to be focusing on therapists today, because the
law of specialization says you get more traction for any specific offer the
more specific you are about who it is for.
However, these principles and steps are valid and valuable for all my
visionary, mission-minded entrepreneurs out there, so don’t be shy to test ‘em
out and put in practice.
After all, as all you consciousness professionals know,
there is no better teacher than our own experience.
Let’s get started with a quick review of the basics.
What is a Brand? What is the Difference Between Branding and
Marketing?
On the deepest level, your brand is your essence, your
presence, the particular offer of service you are to this life. On a more practical level, however, your
brand is your reputation. It’s how you
are known; it’s what you’re known for.
On this level (the level of money and the marketplace) it is not a
“brand” unless others can notice and recognize it.
If a brand fell in the forest and no one was there to hear
it, would it make a sound? No, no it would not.
You can get as theoretical as you want about this, but according to
what’s going to help you in your actual life and business, the answer is No.
It is an AWESOME idea to get clear about the distinction between your branding and your
marketing. Brand, as says international
branding expert Al Ries, is a concept you own in someone else’s mind. I would say it’s the story you own in his/her
mind. It’s the purpose, the passion, the
focus of your business.
If brand is a story, marketing is all the myriad of ways you
tell that story. It’s your website, your
content, your collateral, your social media, your presentations, etc. If your brand is compelling, powerful, and
“sexy,” then your marketing doesn’t have to do so much heavy lifting. If your brand is not on point and on target, then despite your 10,000 followers on
Twitter, likely all you are accomplishing is boring or confusing or annoying
10,000 people. Sorry folks.
So. How do you smart
and sophisticated therapists get that Big Gorgeous Powerful Sexy Brand?
2
Rules and 5 Steps.
2 Rules: Keep it Light and Get it Tight!
Actually, if you can just get these two things, like Stephen
Stills sings, you aint gonna need any more advice. However, since our culture (overall) actually
pulls in the opposite direction of both, it takes some practice to master the Light
and Tight Principles.
KEEP IT LIGHT. EVEN LIGHTER THAN THAT.
This is hugely, vitally important for therapists—and for
anyone that has big, weighty work on the planet, the work of mission, the work
of healing, the work of transformation.
It is absolutely flabbergasting how many passionate pioneers of this
planet set out to release more joy and freedom and wind up with incredibly
grinding, overly full, yet strangely empty lives. This is NOT the fault of the pioneer, but
it’s pretty hard to argue with the results.
Kinda like gravity.
I am not arguing that this is true for any of you, but I bet
you know some hugely talented healers and teachers of which this could be
said. So, my basic rule is, the bigger, broader, and “weightier” your
current mission (and your daily responsibilities) the more airtime you’re going to have to surrender to joyful, playful,
restful, energizing activities. Stuff
that lets you feel the Light That You Are.
We’ll talk more about this in our session on Friday, April
10, and I’ll share my personal techniques and “Lightsaber Secrets” with
you. For those of you participating
online, I know we’d all love it if you shared any tools or questions you have
about keeping your huge mission light.
GET IT TIGHT. EVENT TIGHTER THAN THAT.
As my evil merciless pilates instructor Mari Windsor says,
“this is going to challenge the strength of your powerhouse.” Now that you’re all light and bright, it’s
time to get all rigorous and focused here, which (since there’s plenty of room
for “error”) can potentially get you heavy and grim all over again. You can get as serious as you want about
this, but do try to avoid the grim.
It’s not easy—specialization brings out the agitated deer in
the headlights for most of us. You
therapists can probably guess why. We’ll talk more about this later, but for
now, just keep in mind the serious intensity of children building a very
important project in a sandbox. We’re
going to try some shit out, but we can always keep shoveling and molding, try
out some different flags and Lego figures, etc.
Here’s the most
essential formula for a supertight brand:
we are looking for a specific person, with a particular breakdown, for
which we will provide a remarkable solution.
And what we’re about to do is use the five steps to fill in that
formula so we can blow their sweet little minds with power of our brand
clarity.
Step One: Find Your Peeps.
You may be used to thinking of your ideal or target audience
as a demographic, but I agree with the brand experts who recommend you get
real, real personal. Create a list of
several (8-12) individual characters
you’d love to serve. Base them on real
clients you’ve had that you liked, base them on real (or famous) people you
admire, and throw in a couple you’re not so crazy about just for clarity of
contrast. These characters have names,
ages, genders, or they are not individual
characters. They have sources of income,
or they are not good characters for
you to target.
Now. For each one of
these people. What is the thing that is
sucking the joy right out of this incredible person’s life? What would be an amazing breakthrough for him
or her? How could your particular, remarkable offer of therapy
(based on both your training and life experience) help facilitate this
breakthrough? Choose your top two or
three people and look for a “container.”
We’ll discuss in session.
Step Two: Look and Love Your Competition.
I know this is crazy, but your potential ideal client has a
LOT of therapeutic choices, especially here in a nice crowded market like
Denver. So, you’ve figured out that you
really like those highly creative artistic people who are blocked in their art,
or you’ve got something to say to those fortune-500 CEO’s who are up all night
with their porn addiction, or those parents who are struggling to manage their
blended families. Congratulations! This is a Supertight Focus!
Now, what if you look and someone else is already doing
this, or something close to this? The
good news is this is good news! We’ll talk about why, and how to position
so this person becomes a great referral instead of client-stealing bastard who
just happened to get to your sweet spot first.
Step Three: What’s Your Flava?
This happens to be the name of one of my all-time favorite
songs by British hip-hop singer Craig David, but just in case you totally don’t
care, “Flavor” is a great way to think about the perfect combination of your
brand’s values and your brand’s personality traits—both are well-worth thinking
about because they make you money.
Create your list of Top Five/Six Brand Values and
Personality Traits—don’t do more or you’ll have a hard time using them “like a
sword,” as I am going to teach on Friday.
For example, I have values of both Mastery and Fun, which means I don’t
like “Quick Easy Fix to Make Everything Perfect!” Nonsense, and I don’t work
with projects or people who are not (in some way) really fun for me. As a personality trait, you may have noticed
that I am both practical and irreverent.
Sometimes use borderline bad language.
You may not like it, but my
people love the crap outta it.
Step Four: Don’t Be Stingy. Be 80/20 Generous.
Do you want to get off the “X Hours = X Dollars” treadmill
and start making money in a bigger way? Or are you perfectly happy to get on
that treadmill just so long as it means your practice is full of great people?
Depending on where you are in your career, either can be a darn fine thing.
The good news/bad news here is one of the greatest resources
for either scenario is develop and
share, share, share original content.
Share 80% for free and then charge for 20%. No matter what your current story about
social media and today’s communication channels, I encourage you (as a
therapist who presumably likes people) to think in terms of creating, sharing,
conversing, and community.
Does your original content have to be totally original? If the answer is yes, then I’m in big
trouble, because everything I’ve told you here is based on the work of so many
others before me. No, your content just
has to be yours—your spin on things, your voice, your way of sharing. It’s your blog, if you like writing, or its
your vlog, if you hate writing, or its your online course, if you hate both
writing and being on camera. Then,
get some help with your structures, your platform, and GO. Do not wait for perfection to start your
conversation. Begin by saying Hello.
Now. This is a big,
dense, and potentially heavy topic, so what questions do you have in order to
travel light and keep it tight?
Step Five: Damn it, Ellen, This isn’t Working.
Oh, man, I know. I
hate this step too.
No, but seriously. If
you are focusing on your Keep it Light and Get it Tight principles, it IS
working; it is in the process of working.
Unfortunately, you might be at the stage where you went to the store and
got all your ingredients and now you’re mad that you don’t yet have a
cake. Once you choose a Supertight
Focus, it’s going to take a while to alert the marketplace that you are that focus, and then a bit longer
to get them agitated enough to care. Play
a long game and don’t get fussed.
Share more, speak more, be powerful, keep moving to get in
front of your people. Also, as you know, you don’t necessarily have
to be superchirpy extrovert to be a great therapist, and you don’t have to be
that way to be a great supertight brand either (you could be an introvert
standing for introvert power, as has been proven). One of my favorite therapists is a more
reserved, quiet person, who kinda wants to throw up in her mouth at the thought
of speaking, blogging, vlogging, etc. So
we figured out a way for her to get in through the back door to speak directly
to her people. Questions about that,
contact me.
Lastly, to all those of you brave enough to help ‘ologize
the psyche, I salute you.